Scandalism is widening.
Its happening all around.
What is your point of view??
Let me share mine..........................
Lets talk abt married couple.
I shall start off with, a lady having an affair with other man. What are the possible reasons that she do so?
To me, be it you are a man or a woman, scandalism is a 101% NO NO. Once you are married, put a stop to it babey. You can have as many scandals as you want when you are single, cuz no one can stop you, you are not tied up with anyone. But once you are married, u belongs to a man, no matter how bad that man is, you cant just go around to find a replacement. If you cant tolerate the attitude of your husband, you should let him know, rather than play behind his back.
BUT!! The singles who loves to scandal around, you should find ONLY UNMARRIED MAN. Y should you get a married man, though there are still loads and loads of bujang out there looking for soulmate? So what if that man, is rich? loving? BUt be alive, he belongs to someone.
Ok.. maybe that guy, lied to you that he is single, which happens all the time. If then you find out, he only has a GERLFREN, then to me... hmm.. best woman win la ar.. U nor the lady neither has the rights to say that the man belongs to you. But if you find out that the guy is.... MARRIED, hey bitch by all means LET GO OF HIM. I dun say i only blame the lady but i also blame the man.
Bertepuk sebelah tangan tak berbunyi.
But usually the problem is right... the lady will not want to leave the man, in fact, she will say that the man's wife is at fault. She is not perfect. Hey AKU PANTANG NI MACAM OK. No matter how bad is the relationship of a married couple, who are you to interfere or help??? Its between them to resolve the matter. If you can say that the wife, cant give the extra love that the husband wants... mayb there might be some reasons behind that.. could be,
-the wife is sick
-the wife is tired (she works more than husband, or shifter)
If you can say that the wife is very high maintenance, and ask many2 things from him....
- if the husband is drawing a high salary or not, she has the rights to ask him for ANYTHING.. Y? his money belongs to her ok!!! If not husband, who else she should ask?
If you can say that the wife cannot give zuriat...
-if the man loves the woman, no matter wat is the condition of the woman, the man will accept. You as the 3rd party has no rites to give him a baby, unless the wife allows him to marry another one.
Talking abt this, if a wife allows the husband to marry again, then, the 3rd party is not at fault. She is then also a legal wife of the husband. But a no way to me la eh. Wait long2.
So like for people like me, we are selfish. OF cuz we can be. He is our husband. If we find out our husband is having an affair the 1st thing we will do is to confront him.. and of cuz the lady. And the lady can never say i got no rites to confront her. She is at fault as well.
So gals who is having an affair wif a married man secretly, get alive ok!!! IF you had sex wif him, you are worse than an animal. Takde hati perot. What if your own husband does it to you? What will you feel and what will your kids feelZ???
As for a man.....................
SOme man, they are just naturally GATAL, BUAYA DARAT. BODOH NAK MAMPOS. They have perfectt wife, maybe in a sense of looks, wife is sooo gorgeous, he will still fool around. I mean SOME not all. Some wifes, are so obedient, give him whateva he wants, he also fool around. Some guys can never have enough satisfaction, which i dunno y........ I still cant get the conclusion y? Sakit kuat ke??
Da dapat yg halal, yg haram pon nak.
Some.. bini keje penat2.. dia bwk pompan balik uma.
SOme even ada anak wif the scandal, and give the monthly money to the kids.
TO me, if you have an anak luar nikah..
plz la eh gerl, tak payah nk mintak nafkah dari lelaki tu la. even if he is single or married. The child is illegitimate. You have the full enpowerment on the child, in Islam rules. It is not advisable for him to give you the money. Kalau the guy betol2 responsible, then get married!!! Tak yah nk g court turon naik mintak maintanence. Lain la if korang used to be married, and nak tuntot, tu lain cite ar kan. Its just my point of view.
I dun ask my x, for money for my kid, and neither do i allowhim to see his daughter. cuz he doesnt want to marry me in the 1st place, and y should he see his daughter?
Unlike my husband now, he is a responsible person. So.. he marries me once he knows im pregnant.
TO conclude,... scandalism should be brought to a STOP.
There are so many single ladies and men out there whom can match make wif one another. No need to retak kan rumah tangga org lain......
Plz.. get alive. Put yourself in the victim's shoes. You will feel hurt and disappointed.
**And one thing to add, you might come across, a lady who will not let go of her husband although her husband had an affair. She is not desperate. Tat is love. She does not want to be divorced, lau boleh she wants to save the marriage. That is sacrifices not despo...
And man also.. who gives wife another chance, that is sacrifice out of love.
So the lady or man yg kene buang at last kan.. jgn nk mengamok. You are also at fault. You are the cause of the kegoyangan rumahtangga. yes, U are at fault!!!!**
Well.. we woman will suffer if divorce happens.
Dedicated to my bff.
She used to be a victim of a scandolous affair... a slut and a bitch.
It all has ended...
Any comment............??????
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